There are several differences between French table manners and American etiquette. In France, table manners are fundamental in all public dining situations. And any essential skill must be based on a solid foundation of knowledge. For the French, eating is more than just consuming calories; it's an art de vivre, an element of partimoine culture. There's a proper technique for eating everything from foie gras to salad...
1. Foie gras
Cutlery: small knife, small fork.
Slice your foie gras with a fork and place a bite on a small piece of toast. You can also use your knife (the blades are now made of stainless steel), but the fork is more elegant.
2. Smoked salmon
Cutlery: Fish cutlery.
- With toast
Butter a small piece of toast. Pour a few drops of lemon juice over the salmon on your plate. Cut off a piece with your fish knife. Bring the salmon to your mouth with the fork and eat the buttered bread with it.
- With blinis
Eat in the same way as caviar with blinis.
3. Shellfish
Cutlery: oyster fork.
Take the small fork to the left of the forks. Use this handy fork to loosen all the flesh from the shell and swallow. You can drink the seawater, but gently and quietly. A finger bowl is required for this dish.
4. Salad
Cutlery: a fork (only).
Never cut the salad with a knife. Use your fork and a piece of bread to carefully fold the leaves before bringing them to your mouth. In a good house, the leaves should never be too large to be eaten without difficulty.
5. The cheese
Cutlery: small knife.
Never touch the cheese with your fingers. You must use a piece of bred to hold your cheese and remove the rind with your knife. Never use your fork, even if you're given one, except for Gruyère, if you eat it without bread.
6. Soups, consommés, bisques, fish soups
Cutlery: soup or dessert spoon.
Use the spoon to the right of your knife. Bring it slowly to your mouth and drink from the tip of the spoon. In Great Britain, soups are eaten from the side of the spoon. Never drink from the bowl. Above all, never lift the dish if the soup is poured into a soup bowl.
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